What Parents likes?

What Parents likes?

Have you ever think,
What your parents likes?
I guess no.
None of you ever think about it.

not only their memories,
not only the responsiblities,
not only cooking,
not only taking care of family,
nothing...

do you know , what they liked to be ?
what's their Dream since childhood ?

I'm sure, they might have dreams like you.
may be due to some circumstances,they might not able to achieve their dream.

But, have you ever asked what's their dream is all about ?
I bet no..no one did... just like i did..

why??

 your dreams is impportant to you.
your parent's dream is not...
have you ever think, how much they sacrificed?
not only to kill their dreams,but,
only for you to follow your dreams.

 

I'm sure you must heard from your parent
" JO PASAND HAI VAHI KAR" or,
" TUJHE JISME INTEREST HAI VO KAR, PAR MAN LGA K "
Do you know, why they were saying like this everytime.
Just to motivate you..to Follow Your Dreams..

They sacrifies all their dreams, their likes...
they do all their savings... just to
" UNKA BACHA VHI KRE JISME USKO KHUSHI MILTI HAI"
kiske parents nhi chahenge k unka bcha bada bne.. ache kaam kre..
unke parents ko PROUD feel kraye...
Every parents wants this...

 but, i guess... we never ask our parents,
" MOM-DAD...why are you killing your dreams?
why you don't do all those stuffs u liked ?
we're important for you..our Dreams are important for you...
we know that... but why don't you live your dreams...?? "

 As, it's happened in every middle class family,
or almost family i guess...
Father is the only souce income, mom is a house wife...
where mom used to cook meals for you
and, father works in some company.
or, both are working.
where they don't give time on their dreams and, it goes on continously...
At the end they have to sacrificed.

 
why i'm writing this..do you know ?
offcourse No.. :D

 But..lemme tell you why ?
Because...
"Have you see..ever in your life..
Jab ap khush hote hai ...apke parents kitna khush hote hai..
to apka farz nhi bnta kya? unse poocho...

kya pasand hai apko batao?
kya krna chahte the ap life me ?
kya hai apke Dreams ? "

 
Just go and ask na,
Maa/Papa - Tell me your dream list.
i'm sure pehle to vo yhi bolenge..
" Pagla gayi/gaya hai .. tbiyat to thik hai naa...!!!
kesi behki behki batein kr raha/rhi hai.."

 But, trust me ek ap hi ho jo unko ykin dila skte ho...
k you're serious... go n tell them..

" Tell me Mom/Dad what's your dream, we'll fulfil it..
we're not selfish...we'll complete our and your dreams too..
Hum utne bure bhi nhi hai... agr hmari khushi me apki khushi hai to
apdono ki khushi me meri khushi hai..."

I think you should Try...
bahut maza aega...bahut khushi milegi..
ye janke k unki pasand kya hai.. unki Dreams kya hai ...

 
otherwise..ap agr aise poochoge na direct jaake..
maa/papa apko kya chaie batao...trust me unka ek hi reply aega...
" kuch nhi chaie..bss tu ache se padh likh k bda ho jaa..independant bn ja... aur thoda saving kr lio apne future k lie.."

So let's see who's going to accept this challenge from today onwards,
who all will able complete their Dream and their Parent's Dream..

Inspired by my guru Akshat sir story...

Thank you.

~ Ranjana Chakraborty